Ten ways to say I Love You in GAY PARIS by Richard Nahem 

Ten ways to say "I Love You" in PARIS

Few people will argue that Paris is one of the most romantic cities, if not the most romantic city, in the world. From the top of the hills of Montmartre, to the luscious Luxembourg
Gardens, to the bridges on the Seine with jaw-droppingviews of the city, Paris is just oozing with romantic spots.
We know that you are a savvy, sophisticated traveler, and you gravitate to the coolest places, but we invite you to indulge your inner tourist a little and fulfill some of the Paris stereotypes like climbing to the top of the Eiffel Tower, sipping cheap Champagne while watching the tacky but fun Moulin Rouge show, or having a street artist draw a caricature
of you and your lover at the Place du Tertre in Montmartre. Here are ten ways to say je t’aime in the City of Light.

At The Perfect Love Pad

Nothing will set the mood better for your romantic Paris sojourn than the perfect hotel room. The best place to start is to search the comprehensive list of gay and gay-friendly hotels listed on www.parismarais.com,
the gay-owned site all about the Marais, the top gay area of Paris. From charming, inexpensive small hotels to penthouse suites in chic boutique hotels, you will find many wonderful options here.
One of the only four-star hotels in the Marais, Pavillon de la Reine, is tucked away in an ancient courtyard in front of the handsome Place des Vosges Square. The hotel speaks quiet elegance and 54 individually decorated rooms and suites are accompanied by a newly opened Carita Spa for the ultimate in relaxation. A more rustic choice would be Hotel de la
Bretonnerie in the heart of the gay Marais, housed in a former 17th-century private mansion. Ask for the attic rooms with slanted ceilings and wooden
beams. If you are in a more uptown mood, the Hotel Costes on the rue St. Honore (the designer paradise shopping street) is a hip, happening hotel where the very stylish stay during Paris Fashion Week. The sumptuous Napoleon III-style rooms by Jacques Garcia are dark and elegant and the lobby bar is the place to be seen. Linger over a long lunch in the fab open terrace restaurant and purchase one of their music CDs speciallymixed for the hotel by hot DJ Stephane Pompougnac.

The quieter, more bohemian left bank offers the intimate L’Hotel, where Oscar Wilde spent his last nights holed up in his suite. Get the star treatment like other famous guests Princess Grace, Frank Sinatra, and Elizabeth Taylor with a one-star Michelin restaurant, pool and hammam for hotel guests only, and personalized service.
Get under the sheets with Christian Lacroix who designed the whimsical
rooms at the conveniently located Bellechasse Hotel, across from the Musee Orsay. The seven categories of rooms have names like St. Germain, Avengers (a wink to Emma Peel), and Jeu de Paume with décor that ranges from modern sleek to baroque and cozy. Request a room that has a white, shiny bathtub in the center of it.

In Montmartre

Perched on a hill almost 1,400 feet above the city, Montmartre has some of the most breathtaking panoramas of Paris. The name means “mountain of the martyr” for which Saint Denis, the patron saint of France, was decapitated for his sins in 250 A.D. Until the late 1800s, Montmartre was a separate village outside of Paris, and since it didn’t incur the same high taxes on wine and spirits as Paris, it became the hotspot for nightlife in the late 1800s with the famous nightclubs and cabarets Le Chat Noir, the Moulin Rouge, and the Lapin Agile. Starving artists of the day (Picasso, Dali, Modigliani, and Monet) allhad their studios in Montmartre and frolicked away their days and nights in the local cafés while creating their masterpieces. Feast your eyes on the creamy white domes of the Russian influenced Sacré Coeur, one of the most beloved churches of Paris. Discover the haunts that precocious Amélie used to frequent, including the café where she was a waitress, Les Deux Moulins. Mosey down the winding streets with quirky, private homes, buy a clichéd painting of Paris in the Place du Tertre, and feed each other sweet crepes made fresh by the local street vendors.

On A Seine River Cruise

Did you ever dream about sailing down the Seine in the evening, maybe like Cary Grant and Audrey Hepburn did in the 1963 romantic thriller Charade? Bateaux Parisiens fulfills the dream with three-course dinners plus wine and Champagne on a sleek, modern boat. An orchestra and a singer will serenade you while you gaze into each other’s eyes with magical Paris in the background. Less intimate, but just as romantic, are the 70-minute Bateaux Mouches cruises, which run every 20 minutes from 10:15 A.M. to 11 P.M. from April till September, with longer intervals the rest of the year. For a very special voyage, the Romantic Refuge is a tastefully refurbished barge available for private dinner or lunch parties for up to eight people. A private chef cooking an all-organic menu will cater to your
every whim, and the unlimited organic wine will be flowing.

Sweets for Your Sweet

Chocolate is an aphrodisiac, so be careful or you may turn into a sex maniac with the dizzying amount of chocolate available in every corner of the city.
Jean Paul Hévin, Patrick Roger, and Michel Cluizel, known for their dark, intense chocolate, are the premier chocolatiers and their shops stock every form of chocolate imaginable, from chocolate stilettos to designer versions of Nutella. (Don’t be embarrassed if you like
milk chocolate, it’s also available). Truffle hounds will go crazy over the sinful, velvety truffles lightly dusted with cocoa at Jean Charles Rochoux, a tiny shop on the Left Bank.If you prefer your chocolate in liquid form, Cathy, the genial proprietorof tiny Comme à la Maison (just like home) café prepares homemade to-die-for hot chocolate, which is pretty much like drinking a melted chocolate bar. Parisians take their pastries very seriously, and there are many players in the high stakes Paris pastry world. Pierre Hermé is the master of
the universe, with his modern and inventive confections. Fans line up single file at the minimalist boutique for his famous macarons in traditional flavors like raspberry, coffee, and lemon and unusual combinations like strawberry and wasabi, passion fruit and milk chocolate, and white truffle and hazelnut.

His sweet rivals include Gerard Mulot, who makes the most delicious classic French pastries and Ladurée, also known for their large assortment of macarons. Meanwhile, Legay Choc boulangerie and patisserie bakes its naughty Baguette Magique, a creative brioche sculpted like a penis, once a week. If chocolate and pastry ever had an official house of worship,

Jacques Genin would be it. The stunning shop and café in the northernMarais, is as much a feast for the eyes as it is for the taste buds with its grand metal staircase, stone walls from the tenth century, and sleek eather club chairs. Don’t let the interior distract you from the most orgasmic salted caramels; delicate, exotic, flavored chocolates; and mouthwatering pastries you will ever taste.

A Sensual Spa Experience

After your long days of wearing down your Pumas on the cobblestone rues and being weighed down by shopping bags, a delicious reward of a massage or spa treatment can be just the thing.

Anne Fontaine, famous for her shops filled with pristine white blouses, has opened her first spa in Paris. Anne was baptized in the rainforests of the Amazon so her treatments have a South American theme to them. Your body will feel like swaying to the samba beat after
The Girl from Ipanema package with a guarana scrub, 12-coconut massage, and invigorating seawater bath.

Il Fait Beau in the Marais is a day spa and well-being space dedicated to the beauty of men. Hot stone and aromatherapy massages, seaweed and mud wraps, light hair removal, and mani-pedis are just a few of the choices from the large menu of treatments. Are you missing your workout and feeling a little flabby after eating so many buttery croissants?Drop in for a quick Power Plate session to tone your abs.For the ultimate in pampering, treat yourself to the Dior Institut at the Plaza Athénée Hotel (where Carrie from Sex and the City had her disastrous affair with Baryshnikov). Indulge yourself with five-star luxury and haute couture service with an anti-jet lag facial, a detox energy treatment, or the reviving leg treatment, which will resuscitate your weary shopping legs.

In a Painting

Art has inspired love and romance over the centuries. From the halls of the Louvre, to the Impressionist collection at the D’Orsay, to the contemporary galleries in the Marais, let great art sweep you off your feet. Are you intimidated a bit by the big museum experience? Paris has many excellent small museums, with some located in former private homes. The Carnavalet is the museum of the history of Paris and is housed in a magnificent 17th-century palace, along with some stunning formal gardens. For sculpture, nothing compares to the black and white marble figures masterfully carved by the great Rodin, including his most recognized work, The Thinker. The mostly outdoor museum is famous for its lush green gardens, an amazing untouched oasis in the middle of the city. A not-so-well-known gem is the Marmottan Museum, the former hunting lodge of the Duke of Valmy, which has the largest collection in the world of Monet paintings under one roof.

Galerie NEC, one of the top Marais galleries, has two spaces, one dedicated to museum-quality, Scandinavian, mid-century modern furniture and a newly opened space for contemporary art with a focus on modern ceramics.

The Palais de Tokyo is a fun, multi-cultural space with modern art installations, art bookshop, concept museum shop, and trendy restaurant.

Strolling Hand-in-Hand in the Marais

Le Marais is the gay section of Paris and one of the most beautiful in the city with grand, former private palaces and mansions dating from the 1600s, gorgeous small parks, squares, serene gardens, and narrow, winding streets. You will feel comfortable walking arm-in-arm or planting

With Food, Glorious Food

France is probably most famous for its unbeatable cuisine, aspired toand copied all over the world. When it comes to romance, one of your fondest memories could be an unforgettable meal. If a restaurant with a view means romance to you, here are two of
our top choices. On the Place du Trocadero, a well-kept secret is the Le Café de l’Homme, which provides a view of the Eiffel Tower that seems so close you can almost touch it. With excellent contemporary cuisine, we recommend going at night for dinner so you can witness the astonishing sparkling lights on the tower, which flash every hour on the hour. Georges, atop the Pompidou Centre, has some of the most impressive views and is a sleek, modern affair with eclectic food. Go at dusk and put on your chicest outfit because there is someserious people-watching going on.

Rue de Gravilliers, a small, gritty street, is practically monopolized by three trendy, cool establishments. 404 is a stylish restaurant with delicious, authentic Moroccan food, and next door is Andy Whaloo, a Moroccan bar and lounge with exotic cocktails and Moroccan tapas. The new kid on the block is Derrière, a combination restaurant, lounge, playroom, and private dining room. For haute cuisine without breaking the bank try L’ Atelier Joel
Robuchon, which specializes in exquisite small plates that look like works of art. A hidden foodie gem among the trendy cafés in the Marais, is Monjul, with highly inventive cuisine. Chef Julien Agobert, who worked in some of the top hotels and restaurants like Plaza
Athenee and Le Laurent, surprises with his unusual presentation and tantalizes the taste buds with winning pairings of world cuisine.
Bofinger, off the Bastille, is a lavish, La Belle Époque-style brasserie, built at the turn of the century, that specializes in humongous raw seafood platters that are piled high with the freshest oysters from Brittany, as well as langoustines, crab, and mussels. For steak lovers, Le Relais de l’Entrecôte is a divine carnivore heaven with only one main course on the menu, steak, and it’s served with a tangy secret sauce, the crispiest frites, and a simple green salad. Vegetarians can rejoice with the Rose Bakery, a casual organic restaurant and takeout food shop with homemade vegetable tarts, minipizzas,
and American-style desserts.

One could easily be overwhelmed by the number of great restaurantsfrom which to choose, so we have the perfect solution: The must read/must bring book for foodies, Hungry for Paris by Alec Lobrano, which has reviews of 102 of his favorite Paris restaurants.

While Shopping

Shopping is practically an Olympic sport in Paris, with more shops per capita than anywhere else, so go for the gold. L’Eclaireur is the most cutting edge fashion boutique in the city with a well-edited mix of unknown, up-and-coming designers and heavy hitters
like Comme des Garçons, Balenciaga, Dior, Lanvin, and Dries Van Noten. The women’s shop has a Fornasetti boutique along with a Fornasettidesigned restaurant and the men’s shop has an industrial feel to it. René Talmon L’Armée, a hunky, gorgeous, blond German, makes exquisite handmade jewelry on the premises of his handsome boutique. Working with semi-precious stones, black pearls, silver, and gold, the jewelry is rugged and masculine but finely crafted. René can custom design those special rings you have been waiting to give each other. Two concept store must-visits are Coletteand Merci. Colette practically invented the concept store over ten years ago with two floors of innovative books, CDs and DVDs, techno gadgets, high fashion, jewelry, sneakers, and skateboards along with a restaurant and water bar with over 50 types of bottled water.
Meanwhile, Merci is a mega emporium with an eclectic combination of used book
café, designer clothing boutique, perfume bar, organic restaurant, vintage shop, and home
and house wares store.Scoop up some clothing bargains at La Piscine, an outlet store with labels like D&G, Martin Margiela, and Valentino at 50–70% off, or at L’Habilleur, which hasPaul & Joe, Duffer, and Plein Sud at bargain basement prices. If fetish wear is your thing, Rex has a full supply of black leather and rubber along with, believe it or not, a large selection of Fred Perry shirts. Thinking of getting an Eiffel Tower tattoo? Get inked at Abraxas tattoo and piercing boutique.

Nighttime is the Right Time

Experience the real Gay Paree at night with a myriad of bars, clubs, and cafés. Rue des
Archives is the main street for gay bars and cafés and the L’Open Café is a good place to
start for a friendly drink with the natives. Tables outdoors serve simple food like burgers, salads, and sandwiches and inside is small and crowded with a mostly standing room bar.Cox is more hardcore and cruisy with a Chelsea boy and beer drinking crowd. Les Marronniers is a relaxed café with a large sidewalk terrace open till the wee hours. Around the corner, things heat up a bit more at Raidd, a dance bar with famous DJs and live,
steamy shower shows of French go-go boys. L’Enchanteur, which attracts a more down home crowd. There is also a free jukebox withover 6,500 tunes, happy hour drinks at only
three euros, and a smoking room. Go at it cheek-to-cheek at Le Tango/La Boîte à
Frissons, by dancing the tango, waltz, polka,and paso doble until 12:30 A.M. After that, the club turns into an all out disco with a DJ. 3w, which stands for woman with woman,
is a friendly, unpretentious, all girls bar, but boys are welcome if accompanied by a girl.


If you want to experience the city like a true
Parisian, a great option is to rent a furnished
apartment: Paris Marais www.parismarais.com/

Bateaux Mouches, Port de la Conférence—Pont de
l’Alma.Tel: 01 42 25 96 10. Seine river cruises that
run all day till 11 P.M. www.bateaux-mouches.fr
Bateau Parisiens, Tel: 01 76 64 14 45. Romantic
Seine dinner cruises with Champagne.
Romantic Refuge, Converted barge for private dinner
parties for up to 8 people with private chef.

Legay Choc, 45 rue St. Croix de la Bretonnerie.
Marais bakery that specializes in penis-shaped
breads. www.legaychoc.fr
Michel Cluizel, 201 rue St. Honoré. Tel: 01 42 44 11
66. Dark chocolate specialist. www.cluizel.com
Jacques Genin, 133 Rue de Turenne. Tel: 01 45 77
29 01. Heavenly chocolate & pastry haven.
Pierre Herme,72 rue Bonaparte. Tel: 01 43 54 47
77. Master French pastry baker makes minimalist
works of edible art. www.pierreherme.com
Jean Paul Hevin, 231 rue Saint-Honoré. Tel: 01 55 35
35 96. Hevin scent chocolates. www.jphevin.com.
Laduree, 16 rue Royale. Tel: 01 42 60 21 79.
Famous for their delicious and colorful macarons.

Comme la Maison, 9 rue St. Paul. Tel: 06 89 32 00
10. The best homemade hot chocolate in Paris.
Gerard Mulot, 76 rue de Seine. Tel: 01 43 26 85 77.
Some of the best French pastries in the city.
Jean Charles Rochoux, 16 Rue d’Assas. Tel: 01 42
84 29 54. Sinfully rich chocolate truffles and other
chocolate treats. www.jcrochoux.fr
Patrick Roger, 108 Blvd. St. Germain, Tel: 01 43 29
38 42. Voted the best chocolate in Paris by many
food critics. www.patrickroger.com

Dior Institut, Plaza Athenee Hotel, 25 Avenue
Montaigne. Tel: 01 53 67 66 67. Luxury spa for the
ultimate in pampering.
Anne Fontaine Spa, 370 rue St. Honoré. Tel: 01 42
61 03 70. Serene spa with Brazilian inspired treatments.
Il fait beau, 52 rue des Archives. Tel: 01 48 87 00
00. Men only day spa with Power Plate workout
equipment. www.ilfaitbeau.fr

Carnavalet Museum, 23, rue de Sévigné. Tel: 01 44
59 58 58. Museum of the history of Paris set in a
17th-century former palace. www.paris.fr
Marmottan Museum, 2 Rue Louis Boilly. Tel: 01 44
96 50 33. Museum in an 18th-century mansion with
the largest collection of Monet paintings in the
world. www.marmottan.com
Galerie NEC, Furniture space, 117 rue Vieille du
Temple. Tel: 01 42 77 88 83. Art Gallery, 20 rue des
Coutures Saint Gervais. Tel: 01 42 77 88 83.
Furniture gallery with museum quality mid-century
furniture and objets. New gallery space with contemporary
art, specializing in ceramics.
The Palais de Tokyo, 13 Avenue du Président
Wilson. Tel: 01 47 20 00 29 Modern art and installation
museum with hip, cool restaurant.
Rodin Museum, 77 Rue de Varenne. Tel: 01 44 18
61 10. Rodin’s famous sculptures surrounded by
lush gardens. www.musee-rodin.fr


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404, 69,Rue des Gravilliers. Tel: 01 42 74 57 81.
Trendy Moroccan restaurant.
Bofinger, 7 Rue de la Bastille. Tel: 01 42 72 87 82.
Romantic Belle époque-style brasserie that specializes
in raw seafood platters.
Derriere, 69, Rue des Gravilliers. Tel: 01 44 61 91
95. New hotspot restaurant, lounge, and private
dining room.
Le Relais de l’Entrecote, 20, rue Saint-Benoît. Tel:
01 45 49 16 00. Excellent steak only restaurant.
Georges, Centre Pompidou, Place Georges
Pompidou. Tel: 01 44 7 47 99. Modern eclectic cuisine
with killer views of the city.
Le Café L’Hommes, Musée de l’Homme, 17 Place
du Trocadero. Tel: 01 44 05 30 15. Best kept
secret/non-touristy restaurant with amazing views
of the Eiffel Tower and great food.
L’ Atelier Joel Robuchon, 5 Rue de Montalembert.
Tel: 01 42 22 56 56. Lesser priced, more casual
restaurant of celebrity chef Joel Robuchon.
Monjul, 28 Clos des Blancs-Manteaux. Tel: 01 42
74 40 15. Creative, haute casual cuisine in the
Marais. www.monjul.com
Rose Bakery, 30 Rue Debelleyme. Tel: 01 44 78 08 97. Mostly vegetarian restaurant with dishesmade with fresh organic ingredients. Breakfast and
lunch only.
Andy Whaloo, 69 Rue des Gravilliers. Tel: 01 42 71 20 38. Hip Moroccan lounge with exotic drinks & Moroccan tapas.

Abraxas, 9 Rue Saint-Merri. Tel: 01 42 76 99 89.
Tattoo and piercing parlor. www.abraxas.fr
Rene Talmon L’Armee, 3 rue Cunin Gridaine. Tel:
01 4 87 1712. Jewelry handmade on the premises
by a gorgeous German hunk.
Colette, 213 Rue Saint-Honoré.Tel: 01 55 35 33 90.
Innovative concept store on three floors with water
bar & restaurant. www.colette.fr
L’Eclaireur. 40 rue de Sévigné. Tel: 01 48 87 10 22.
Cutting edge designer clothes with labels
Balenciaga, Dior, and Lanvin.
L’Habilleur- 44 rue de Poitou. Tel: 01 48 87 77 12 .
Outlet store with labels Paul & Joe, Duffer, and Plein
Sud at 40–60% off.
Merci, 111 Blvd. Beaumarchais. Tel: 01 42 77 00
33. Chic emporium with bookshop, designer clothing,
organic restaurant, house wares and furniture.
La Piscine, 13 Rue des Francs Bourgeois. Tel: 01 48 87
59 24. Designer outlet store with 50–70% off on men’s
and women’s clothing, shoes, and accessories.
Rex, 42 Rue du Poitou. Tel: 01 42 77 58 57. Leather,
rubber and fetish boutique.

3w, 8 rue des Ecouffes. Tel: 01 48 87 39 26. Girls
bar that lets men in who are accompanied by a girl.
Cox Bar, 15 Rue des Archives.Tel: 01 42 72 08 00.
Cruisy bar.
Les Bains Douches, 7 rue du Bourg L’abbeé. Tel: 01
53 01 40 60. upscale club & bar. Note: Some nights
are mixed/straight, so call to check. ( closed temporary in summer 2010 )
L’ Enchanteur, 15 rue Michel Le Comte. Tel: 01 48
04 02 38. Fun and friendly bar with karaoke cabaret
room and jukebox with over 6,500 tunes.
La Boite a Frissons, 11 Rue au Maire. Tel: 01 48 87
25 71. Dance the tango, waltz, polka, and Paso
Doble all night long. www.boite-a-frissons.fr
Les Marronniers, 18 Rue des Archives. Tel: 01 40
27 87 72. Cruisy gay café open till the wee hours.
L’Open Café,17 Rue des Archives. Tel: 01 42 72 26
18. Friendly, neighborhood bar. www.opencafe.fr
Raidd, 23 Rue du Temple.Tel: 01 47 27 80 25
Steamy bar with live shower shows and hot DJ.
The best site for the most detailed information
about clubs, bars, saunas, and sex clubs is

This article was first published in may 2010 by our friends from Passport Magazine
and by Richard Nahem, great tour guide and journalist living in le Marais who publishes the weekly blog eye-perfer-paris: http://www.eyepreferparis.com/

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